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Why is Deconstruction Such a "Thing" Today? a mothers love for her adult kids apostasy christian no more church hurt confidence in god deconstructing faith deconversion family estrangement god's got this Feb 06, 2024

In a conference I led for Lifeway Christian Resources back in November, I asked this question:

WHY IS DECONSTRUCTION SUCH A “THING” TODAY?

And then I attempted to answer it by sharing what Carey Ne...

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Deep Dive into Jesus' Prodigal Story Part 3: Privilege Without Responsibility a mothers love for her adult kids apostasy christian no more family estrangement fathers parenting prodigals parents of adult children Sep 11, 2023

There's something Jesus' audience knew about this story that we might miss. The father's son was asking for privilege without responsibility. 

Here's how Bailey explains this, 

"The direct natural r...

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Deep Dive into Jesus' Prodigal Story Part 2: A Relationship is Broken, Not a Law a mothers love for her adult kids apostasy bible reading christian no more confidence in god family estrangement fathers mothers parenting parenting prodigals parents of adult children Sep 11, 2023

Once we understand the culture of Jesus' day, we have a greater awareness of the impact His story of the prodigal son had on His audience.

The original audience for this parable

Don't forget who Jes...

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With Me?…Without Me! believing god can i trust god christian no more confidence in god curse of the fall faith heaven hell Jul 14, 2023

One of mine and Tom’s favorite lines in a movie is the one Roy Miller (played by Tom Cruise) relayed to June Havens (played by Cameron Diaz) in Knight and Day.

CLICK HERE to see it.

Many times Tom a...

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How Could a Loving God Send Anybody to Hell?! being light christian no more deconstructing faith deconversion hell is god good? May 23, 2023

I've found myself bombarded by questions like this one in the most unusual of places. I'm not going to share where, exactly--just know that they were places I never imagined I'd entertain questions li...

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Penetrating Filter Bubbles and Echo Chambers with the Gospel a mothers love for her adult kids apostasy being light christian no more deconstructing faith deconversion filter bubbles gospel and new age parenting Apr 10, 2023

What is the Gospel? 

When the word gospel was used in Jesus' day, it was the word used to describe when a herald would come to a village and make loud declaration of good news. Almost always, either ...

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Love Works (Hard). A Blog Post for Parents Who Need It a mothers love for her adult kids begging in prayer can i trust god christian no more deconstructing faith deconversion family estrangement how to pray for someone i love parents of adult children people deconstructing their faith what went wrong woke Mar 06, 2023

As a mother of adults who have traveled the deconstruction journey, I have up close and personal experience with the deconstruction of faith that is happening in our world today.

As a mother of indep...

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Apostasy and Revival: Can They Happen at the Same Time? apostasy being light believing god christian no more courage to share deconstructing faith god's got this revival Feb 20, 2023

Revival:

I'm writing this blog post on February 18, 2023. In the past few weeks news of revival has spread like wildfire across our nation from the small campus of Asbury University in the tiny town ...

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Parenting People Who are Deconstructing Their Faith Conclusion christian no more deconversion parents of adult children people deconstructing their faith Jan 07, 2022

For those of you who are walking this path, this has no doubt been an emotional journey. I hope that your heart is encouraged by listening to the 3 (kind of) part series I just completed on my podcast...

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