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Why is Deconstruction Such a "Thing" Today? a mothers love for her adult kids apostasy christian no more church hurt confidence in god deconstructing faith deconversion family estrangement god's got this Feb 06, 2024

In a conference I led for Lifeway Christian Resources back in November, I asked this question:

WHY IS DECONSTRUCTION SUCH A “THING” TODAY?

And then I attempted to answer it by sharing what Carey Ne...

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Deep Dive into Jesus' Prodigal Story Part 9: The Father and His Older Son a mothers love for her adult kids family estrangement god's got this parenting prodigals prodigal story Sep 30, 2023

As we bring this series to a close, we must remember that when Jesus first set out to share this parable, he was talking with tax collectors and religious rulers. He'd been accused of consorting with ...

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Deep Dive into Jesus' Prodigal Story Part 6: A Fool-proof plan? a mothers love for her adult kids family estrangement parenting adults parenting prodigals prodigal story Sep 19, 2023

Thus far we've taken a deep dive into the cultural setting of our story, and we've studied the 3 characters Jesus introduced to us. Now, the plot thickens. Jesus leaves the father and older brother at...

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Deep Dive into Jesus' Prodigal Story Part 3: Privilege Without Responsibility a mothers love for her adult kids apostasy christian no more family estrangement fathers parenting prodigals parents of adult children Sep 11, 2023

There's something Jesus' audience knew about this story that we might miss. The father's son was asking for privilege without responsibility. 

Here's how Bailey explains this, 

"The direct natural r...

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Deep Dive into Jesus' Prodigal Story Part 2: A Relationship is Broken, Not a Law a mothers love for her adult kids apostasy bible reading christian no more confidence in god family estrangement fathers mothers parenting parenting prodigals parents of adult children Sep 11, 2023

Once we understand the culture of Jesus' day, we have a greater awareness of the impact His story of the prodigal son had on His audience.

The original audience for this parable

Don't forget who Jes...

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Love Works (Hard). A Blog Post for Parents Who Need It a mothers love for her adult kids begging in prayer can i trust god christian no more deconstructing faith deconversion family estrangement how to pray for someone i love parents of adult children people deconstructing their faith what went wrong woke Mar 06, 2023

As a mother of adults who have traveled the deconstruction journey, I have up close and personal experience with the deconstruction of faith that is happening in our world today.

As a mother of indep...

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If You Just Had Enough Faith a mothers love for her adult kids begging in prayer can i trust god confidence in god faith family estrangement fear and faith god's got this how to pray how to pray for people in pain how to pray for someone i love how to win spiritual battles what about when god isn't good? where is god when it hurts Jul 18, 2022

I pulled this blog post from 2013. Before you read it, I need to tell you what I did before I found this one. I read through several blog posts that were written in 2013, and in reading them I was rem...

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What is Love? a mothers love for her adult kids can i trust god faith family estrangement god's got this how to win spiritual battles mothers parenting praying through pain truth where is god when it hurts Jul 12, 2022

  I am reposting a blog I wrote in August, 2012. When I wrote this, my eldest daughter, Mikel was 20 years old with a one year old daughter, her husband was a soldier with "anger issues" and my other ...

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When Your Deconstructing Kids Dismiss You a mothers love for her adult kids can i trust god confidence in god deconstructing faith deconversion family estrangement parents of adult children Apr 20, 2022

"Honor my boundaries, give me space and do not contact me anymore."

Those were the words I read on the text she sent. What do we do when our deconstructing kids dismiss us from their lives? I've neve...

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